how?

How do you tell your brother that he's a fucking moron without him hating you and actually realizing it's because you care?

If anyone has read my blog before then you might remember a story about some girls that lived in my mother's basement for a while.(10/20/08) They caused huge issues. AND took my clothes and took pictures in them. Well my brother has decided that he NEEDS to be in a relationship with one of them. The main one that mooched off my mother for WAY too long! She's manipulated him into thinking that he loves her. She's now mooching off of him. She doesn't have a job. She doesn't drive because there's something wrong with her car or her driving record... something. She lives with him and my other brother and doesn't pay rent, doesn't pay anything! He pays for everything. Now I hear that they have papers about what they need to file in order to get married????? FUCK THAT!!! I will not be silent about it. I refuse to let her take my name and defile it. Oh and how sweet... she even says on her Myspace that she "smokes pot everyday." Lovely.

I won't be a part of my brothers life if he brings her into my family. I can't. She will ruin my family more than she already has. I thought he was smarter than this. My other brother has tried talking to him and won't listen. He doesn't realize she's ruining his life.

How do I knock some sense into him? How do I get him to open his eyes and realize she's hurting him? She doesn't love him. She's using him.